March 2023 Update

Yes, I know its been quite a while since my last post but to be fair I didn’t have a huge amount to tell so I thought it best to wait until I had something worthwhile to report than just “another day in retirement” LOL

In the last week of December, I was given the OK to drive again and got to Brighton to spend Christmas with my parents just before the big storm hit. Every time I let my 12 lb dog out over the next three days, I had to ensure he didn’t blow away! It’s certainly nice not to have to depend on someone else driving me around again. Went again to Brighton with a sister on February 4 & 5 although this time we weren’t so lucky in missing the snowstorm – at least on the way there.

I was pleased to attend The Queen’s Own Rifles of Canada’s change of Honorary Lieutenant Colonel event held at Casa Loma on January 22nd which included the surprise attendance of the Minister of National Defence. A great event which finished with a reception in the QOR Museum on the third floor.

On February 2nd we once again held our in-person museum volunteer recognition night at the Royal Canadian Military Institute after three years of virtual events as a result of the pandemic.

Current archiving project…..sigh

On one of those nice Saturdays we had (when the snow had all melted and the next dump was still to come) Apollo and I headed down to Cherry Beach dog park for a good run (well walk for me – he covers about three times my distance running back and forth!) And in March I was able to join friends John, John, Brent, Brian and Joe for Sunday brunch where I sated my long-time yearning for eggs benedict 🙂

Other than that, I spend most of my days on museum work (from home) – processing archival materials, dealing with financial updates, responding to research requests, and sorting out accession records – never a dull moment he says sarcastically! And of course, enjoying – most days at least – three walks a day with Apollo. Sometimes the weather shortens those but he really can’t miss them completely 😉

Now that the fun stuff is out of the way, some of you may be wondering how the journey with cancer is progressing. As I think I’ve previously mentioned, I’m having immunotherapy treatments (infusions of NIVOLUMAB) once a month instead of every two weeks.  This requires blood work and a doctor’s appointment at Princess Margaret Hospital, followed by the treatment a couple of days later. It’s given by IV and takes maybe 30 minutes – often the wait time to get a chair takes longer but thanks to Audible, the wait doesn’t usually seem too long.  Unlike chemotherapy, there are minimal side effects – a rash (controlled by a steroid cream), lack of appetite (I’ve lost about 35 lbs over 14 months – not a bad thing all-round lol), some lack of taste, and some drowsiness. But clearly, nothing to complain about at all.

Last week I had some scans (MRI for my brain and CT for everywhere else) and the results were all positive. The brain team summary was: Further interval improvement. Further decrease in size of the small residual left occipital lobe enhancing lesion, and decrease in size of the other lesions to the point where there are no longer perceptible, and no evidence of any new lesions. As a reminder, I was first diagnosed with 10 lesions in my brain (for some reason they call them tumours elsewhere in your body…) so things have definitely moved in the right direction 🙂

Although I haven’t discussed the CT scan results with the doctor yet (it’s a different team from the brain doctors), they seem to indicate similar progress.

So going forward, more of the same, continuing the immunotherapy treatment once a month, and repeating the scans in three months as the next check on progress.

Meanwhile, we can only hope that spring weather comes sooner than the current forecasts!

 

 

 

 

One Door Closes – Another Door Opens

At least that’s the adage.

Door Closing

Although I haven’t been working since December because of my health “challenges”, today is my first day of official retirement, and I guess that’s the door closing. I don’t feel like it’s slamming though – perhaps because of working from home for almost two years – and not working at all for 10 months! There are many things I won’t miss of course – many of you referred to them in the retirement card I received today. That said, I’m debating what to call a book I’d like to write now that I’m retired (although I probably won’t LOL). Some possible titles include:

  • “Yes, there really are stupid questions!”
  • “Why exactly is this so urgent?”
  • “How to prepare materials you’re not sure anyone will actually read.”
  • “Why could anyone possibly need 10 pages of background materials for a 15-minute meeting they haven’t yet decided to attend?” (<Cough> AMO/ROMA)

I’m leaning toward the first one but just wish I’d kept a list LOL.

On the plus side though, are the (almost) universally talented, dedicated and pleasant colleagues I had the pleasure of working with over my 17+ years with the OPS. I particularly appreciated the fact that they didn’t blame me (the ultimate middleman) for the constant requests to respond to questions or provide materials at the very last minute! MHSTCI (and its various configurations) has some exceptionally talented members working for the benefit of the people of Ontario. I learned a lot about many subjects the ministry dealt with which was always handy for making small talk at cocktail parties! It’s certainly my colleagues I will miss the most.

Door Opening

What next? Who knows! Dealing with my health is certainly the first priority but that continues to look positive. At some point – perhaps next spring or summer – I have a few travel plans to check off my bucket list depending on how the pandemic ebbs and flows.

After 10+ years as Curator, I’ll continue my volunteering for The Queen’s Own Rifles of Canada Regimental Museum and Archive although in a slightly more administrative role as Director and Acting Archivist. Anyone in the museum and archives world knows that processing archival donations is a very different kettle of fish from cataloging museum donations, and I’m mostly enjoying the challenge of wrapping my head around those differences.

I do have some more serious publishing projects that have been hanging over my head for some time.  Since our transcription project in 2014, I’ve been very slowly working toward publishing the First World War war diaries of the 3rd Battalion, Canadian Expeditionary Force. This is one of the Battalions that the QOR perpetuates. I’m part way there but one thing after another keeps taking priority.

The other is creating for my own benefit, a photo book from my 2019 trip to Belgium and France for the 75th Anniversary of D-Day, followed by my 3,000 km drive around France. I’ve started but again…

And then there is more purging of closets and wardrobes and drawers and file cabinets. Hmmmm…maybe I should build a SharePoint site to keep track of these projects??  LOL

On Another Note

Unfortunately because of potential COVID exposures, I didn’t make it to Brighton to spend Thanksgiving with my parents. But all was not lost (certainly not any lbs!) as I got to have dinner with one of my sisters and her family in Pickering – with lots of leftovers to bring home!

Siblings at West Montrose Cover Bridge Oct 2022

And on October 22nd (that beautiful sunny and 20C day) my three sisters and I took a road trip to Wellington County. Our first stop was in Crosshill where some of our ancestors had lived, followed by Hawkesville which was actually founded by our Hawkes ancestors.

One of the latter was a sister of Samuel Lount. For those local history buffs out there, 10 points if you can tell us (in the comments below and preferably WITHOUT the help of Google) what Lount is known for; 15 points if you can tell us his fate; and 25 points if you can tell us what arrived a few weeks later. (There is no prize actually but humour me!)  I’ll provide or confirm the answers in my next post.

We then stopped by the West Montrose covered bridge (which is a designated heritage structure under the OHA) where we had our photo taken by a delightful Canadian Armed Forces veteran.

Then it was off to Elora and its spectacular gorge. Elora was packed.  I imagine this was because people thought it it could be the last nice weekend of the fall, and because the colours were pretty much at their peak.  A great lunch on the Handsome Devil Bistro patio (we had Apollo with us) and a pleasant wander through the rest of the village and made every opportunity for a photo op LOL

Then it was off to Fergus on the way home – clearly, those Scottish mason settlers knew what they were doing! One last spectacular view of the colours as we descended County Rd 25 from Acton down to the 401 where we then joined the stop-and-go traffic for longer than any of us expected.  A great day out and thanks to my sisters for spending the day with me.

Lastly, I have more scans at the end of the month and hopefully, in December the brain oncologist will tell me I’m allowed to drive again. It’s not the end of the world but depending on others for rides is still not something I’m used to…

Until next time, enjoy the final days of autumn!!